10 Tips for 'American Geishas' from LifeOvers™
Why do American women adore and detest Geishas? Experts Gigi Sage and Beth Ellenby, studied in the ways of the Geisha, offer guidance to American women for success in life, love and business.
Boca Raton, FL (PRWEB) January 6, 2006
What makes Geisha women so alluring? As entertainers, their magnetism and beauty are skills. In the US, there is no formal study of feminine arts and skills. What prepares a girl to become a woman? LifeOvers' founders Gigi Sage and Beth Ellenby reconnect today's women with ancient-but-timeless feminine arts and skills. They combine the independence and honesty of American women with the discipline and service of Japan's Geisha. A more sophisticated woman emerges: An "American Geisha", skilled in the arts of relationship, femininity and communication. "Over the years, we have seen how incorporating a generous spirit of service enhances communication and strengthens connections - both at work and at home," said Ms. Sage.
The movie, "Memoirs of a Geisha," brings that mysterious image of Japanese culture again to the forefront. How can non-Japanese women incorporate that mystique and allure into their own lives? Sage and Ellenby designed "Arts of the Japanese Woman" retreats for women curious to learn not only traditional arts but the spirit beneath the exquisite kimonos.
Ten steps women can take to become American Geisha, or "women who live artfully," are:
1) Be of service by paying quiet attention to the needs of those around you. As in, geishas always ensure their clients' cups are refilled -- without calling attention to their act of refilling.
2) Entertain in a way that energizes others - on stage and off.
3) Be the most appreciative audience when others are performing.
4) Be a good listener when your client needs a good listener.
5) Be a witty conversationalist when your client needs playful banter.
6) Serene silence is powerful.
7) Mystery with lightness is magnetic.
8) Be discreet. A person who can keep a secret is given more secrets.
9) When wearing a kimono, the bare neck becomes very sexy.
10) Always see the humor and beauty in others.
According to Ms. Ellenby, who lived in Japan, "In today's society, there are many misunderstandings of what Geisha represent. What we focus on in "The Arts of the Japanese Woman" is the Geisha's discipline, wit, grace and beauty - qualities that women admire and want to master." Sage and Ellenby teach the "essence" of Geisha -- not the "system".
"Arts of a Woman" is a division of LifeOvers™, a multimedia education company founded by life coaches Gigi Sage and Beth Ellenby. Its wholistic mission focuses on five areas: relationships, career, wellness, lifestyle and spirituality. Ms. Ellenby resides in Phoenix, AZ, and Ms. Sage in New York City and Austin, TX.
LifeOvers can be reached at www. lifeovers. com and 480-456-0070.
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